Helpful
information about the Parent Education Program:
If
you and your spouse are in the process of divorce and
you have a minor child or children, participation in a
Parent Education Program is mandated by the
court.
Some
of the provisions of Standing Order 1-03 issued by the
Chief Justice of the Probate and Family Court,
effective August 1, 2003, are
summarized as follows:
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The interests of the minor children of parties
appearing before it would be well served by educating
their parents about children's emotional needs and the
effects of divorce on child behavior and development.
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All parties to any action for divorce in which there
are minor children shall attend and participate in an
approved Parent Education Program. This requirement
applies to both joint petitions and complaints for
divorce, and as ordered by a judge of this court in an
action to establish paternity, complaints for
modification or contempt, or in any case involving
visitation, custody or support of minor children.
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Attendance at an approved program is mandatory for
parties to such action unless waived by the court. Parties
must register with an approved provider within sixty (60) days of service of the original
complaint upon the original defendant and must attend
the next available session.
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No pre-trial conference or trial will be
held by the court until the court receives a
certificate of attendance from an approved program for
each party, or until the court waives the requirement. An
uncontested divorce hearing may be scheduled pending
attendance if the parties file confirmations of
registration with the court and so long as both
parties complete the program prior to the hearing. A
pre-trial conference in a contested case may be
similarly scheduled so long as the parties complete
the program prior to the conference.
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The court may waive the attendance requirement upon
motion, with notice, for one or both parties.
Waivers will only be granted upon a demonstrable
showing of chronic and severe violence which negates
safe parental communication; language barriers;
institutionalization or other unavailability of a
party; unavailability of a program in the county where
the original divorce was filed; failure of the other party to complete a
program; or where justice otherwise indicates.
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Sanctions for failure to register with an approved
program within sixty (60) days of service of the original
complaint upon the original defendant may be imposed by the
court.
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The parties shall each pay $65.00 to the program in
advance of the seminar to offset the cost of materials
and facilitators.
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A party may pay a reduced fee of $5.00 to the provider if
that party has submitted and had allowed an "Affidavit
of Indigency and Request for Waiver." This form...is
available at the Registry of the Probate and Family Court.
The party must submit a copy of this form to the provider
when registering for a program at a reduced fee of $5.00.
(Further
information about the Parent Education Program and
related requirements is available from the Suffolk County Probate and Family
Court Registry.)